Does Passion = Aggression?

14/09/2007 by Ellie at TFP.

Does following Words that Change Actions mean we lose passion?

I was talking about our workshops to a client when they asked whether by getting rid of anger/aggression do we not loose passion. This got me thinking: talking for peace is not about repression/supression of feelings. It is about transforming anger and making us more alive to our own true needs and feelings rather than hiding behind anger/agression.

Agression is not the only expression of passion. Since having an awareness of communicating differently I think I have become more passionate and true in my feelings. By following the 4 steps in compassionate communication it has enabled me to be more aware of what triggers my anger: what are the feelings and needs behind this anger and in this way I am more alive to the world around me. I am open to the feelings of others as I am not putting myself in a defensive position when others are expressing anger/aggression. I am feeling life more intensely/passionately since removing the veil of anger.

Talking for Peace/Words that Change Actions is about awareness in communication; being aware of the triggers for anger and transforming anger into compassionate communication where we connect with the heart. What then ensues is an equal interaction as opposed to one where there is an aggressor and a victim.

So for me recognising my anger and the triggers for it does not diminish my passion.

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